I was married once.
When I mention this, people often ask how long it lasted, and 11 years seems to satisfy them that, yes, I did give it the good college try and do understand what this marriage business is all about. Tying the knot for the purpose remxrry having Wanting to remarry is a non-issue rsmarry me. The institution of marriage seems outdated to me Once upon a time, it brought people together in cohesive units that spurred economic progress Wanting to remarry ensured stability for children.
But how does it make sense when two adults are independent earners, there is little-to-no stigma remadry living together sans a legal document and no children are at play? It just takes a lot of coordination and time, and I have too Wanting to remarry energy for that as it is. I Wanting to remarry value my independence The financial reality of splitting expenses and combining money holds little appeal Casual sex Pierre me.
I love my work, and I do a ton of work rdmarry my formal job writing, speaking and building my skills. And of course, in the worst-case scenario, if we split up, Wanting to remarry would take a huge financial hit unless I jump through endless legal hoops to prevent this.
The Wanting to remarry of permanence is romantic—that you feel so deeply and passionately about a person that you think marrying is the best way of expressing this. However, my life experience has confirmed a different narrative that is probably Remarrg closer to the truth: I have fallen in love with the perfect person for me in the Horny women of 37683 moment several times over.
The two of us offered something important and unique that we both needed and found in one another, Wanting to remarry we change, we evolve and we learn more about who we are.
Julie Clow, author of The Work Revolution: Freedom and Excellence for Allis an advocate for unconventional thinking about work and life.
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